Thank you for your response.

I can't even begin to think which side I am in. As a Catholic, based on the bible, premarital intercourse is a big no. But as the world is changing and developing rapidly, our culture is changing as well. Culture has a strong and tight bond with the norm that runs in our society, the norm is changed too. People might say that doing premarital intercourse is like a test drive before you buy your dream car. In some big cities in Indonesia as well, it is not a weird thing to spend holiday with your partner and stay together in the same hotel room. I think people do not think about it as taboo anymore.

What do I think about this? To be honest, I don't know. Not for now. Time will tell me, which side I am actually in.